Discover the story of the song > I Don T Hold A Grudge – Alice Merton

The lyrics are about someone who is reflecting on a past relationship where their partner was not there for them when they needed them the most. The protagonist asks where the partner was when certain events happened that caused them pain or distress. Despite feeling hurt, the protagonist doesn't hold a grudge and doesn't need an apology from their partner. They just want to know if the partner truly feels the same way they do. The protagonist feels like their partner missed out on being there for them and doesn't want the partner to come back or apologize. They just want to know if their partner still has the same feelings. The song ends with the protagonist questioning where their partner was when they lost control and the sirens rang, hinting at a sense of betrayal or abandonment. Regardless, the protagonist still doesn't hold a grudge and just wants to know if their partner truly cares or not.