Discover the story of the song > A Modern Way of Letting Go – Idlewild

The song is about the protagonist realizing that he can't rely on anyone to take care of him, so he shouldn't bother asking for help. He also knows that what's important in life isn't always what people think is important. The chorus asks how long we will continue with this "modern" way of breaking up with people instead of confronting them face-to-face. Overall, the song is about taking responsibility for yourself and not avoiding difficult situations.