Discover the story of the song > For Real – Okkervil River

The protagonist sometimes has intense cravings for violence and danger, including holding his partner's throat tightly, but he also desires a real emotional connection with her. He suggests they go on a drive to see if she is truly committed to him. He values the raw reality of life and doesn't want his partner to make excuses for it. The protagonist feels that true emotions and experiences cannot be hidden or ignored.