Discover the story of the song > Not Used – Lola Kirke

The protagonist is thinking about someone they used to care about and is wondering if that person is doing okay. They admit that they also had a hard time getting over the breakup and still think about this person. The protagonist is not used to not being with this person and it's still on their mind. They feel guilty for not being able to fix the problems in the relationship and for leaving, even though they know that person will change.