Discover the story of the song > Stop On By – Rufus

The lyrics are about a person who is always there for their romantic partner, even though they sometimes feel like a second choice. They question if the material things their partner provides are worth staying for, and suggest that someone else out there might truly appreciate their kindness. The lyrics emphasize that they don't want to hurt their partner's feelings, but they want them to consider if they are truly happy in their relationship.