Discover the story of the song > You Learn – Alanis Morissette

The lyrics are saying that the protagonist recommends experiencing difficult and painful things, like having their heart broken or making mistakes, because it helps them learn and grow. The chorus repeats the idea that life is full of ups and downs, and each experience teaches a lesson. The outro adds that even in moments of grief, laughter, prayer, and making choices, there is always room to learn and grow.